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In memory of James Thomas Smith II

Created by Family Of James Thomas Smith II

James Thomas Smith II

Although I was not particularly close to my cousin, I do have a few great memories of him. Being a few years older than Tommy, I remember when he was a toddler. In particular, I remember sitting in my grandparents living room as he practiced taking his first steps. His mother and I sat a few feet apart while he stumbled and eventually celebrated his first few wobbly steps. Tommy went on to celebrate a few other wobbly steps in his life...but he also celebrated with many great strides. He was an avid bowler, devoting many hours to his sport. After much practice, he even accomplished a 300 game (a big deal in Indiana)!

As I said, I was not very close to my cousin, but I know that he held his friends and family close to his heart. It seemed as though he would do anything for them.

Tommy's life suddently ended one October night in 2005 after a few wobbly steps. I'm not sure of the details nor do I need to know them. I know that he experimented with drugs, beginning with marijuana and eventually adding new "experiences". After a night of a little too much fun, Tommy went to sleep and never woke up, at the age of 21.

As I said, Tommy was very close with his friends. He spent many hours with them and with his extremely devoted girlfriend, Kristin. At the time of Tommy's death, Kristin was 6 months pregnant with their first child. James Thomas Smith III was born two months after Tommy's death. I have no doubt in my mind that he would have been as devoted to his son as he was to his friends. Thomas will be a year old soon...and begin to take his first few wobbly steps, unfortunately without his father there to catch him.

I work as a school counselor in Phoenix, Arizona. I started this profession because I wanted to help kids. To help kids reach their goals and overcome the obstacles in their road. Now, I am devoted preventing just one child from giving his or her life to drugs. I share the tragedy of my cousin with my students. And unfortunately, they share their tragedies with me as well. This website is amazing! Those of us who have been through this have a responsibility to others. A responsibility to share the story of all the "Tommys" in our lives and hopefully save another life along the way.


This Memorial was created to commemorate a loved one's life and to let other families know they can turn to the Partnership for Drug-Free Kids for help when struggling with their son or daughter's substance use. Please consider sharing this page to increase awareness of substance use disorders and to provide hope and healing for others.

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1. Aliyya
So sorry for your loss, sending good wishes your way.
2. Julie
I'm so sorry for your loss.
3. Kristin Houser
Mindy My friend Kara was sitting in a class when a girl showed a youtube video that had our Tommy in it. Crazy!!! It's so sad. I still miss him so much! And Thomas is getting so big. He's already 2. The thing that I would like to say is if you know someone had taken something even if time after time they have been ok and jusy woke up the next morning... get them help. Mixing medications is NOT OK!!!
4. Mona Casey
Mindy, I am so sorry for your loss. And thank you for dedicating your life to preventing others from going down the same path Tommy went. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care! By the way, this piece is so beautifully written.
5. Trena Eversole
Hey Tommy, just wanted to say hello. Lil Stevie said he misses you!
6. Mike Gates
Just wanted to say I miss and love you. Peace.